So the cat is out of the bag, probably sooner than I would have liked. I told all of our friends at the surprise party on Saturday. I just couldn’t keep it in. Everyone was excited and shocked really. I could tell that some were more excited than others. None of our friends in the city have kids and only a few of them are married. It is definitely early for people to have kids for this area. I wonder how much our friendships will change. We won’t be able to do a lot of the fun stuff that we did before. No more carefree Saturdays spent by the pool drinking vodka Kool-Aid ‘til late at night. But there will be better rewards and I suppose that time in our life is coming to an end and that’s fine. My friend Emily will be leaving the country within the next year probably and she is the person that we hang out with the most.
DH also told people on Facebook, which I could have definitely waited for. I told people on Facebook since he did. I just hope nothing goes wrong and I have to somehow untell people. I’m terrified now. My appointment next Friday cannot come soon enough. What was I even thinking scheduling it that late?....My biggest fear is that we go and we don’t hear a heartbeat. I just wish we had waiting until we heard a heartbeat. Although I think my fears are completely unfounded, I have read to many m/c stories on the nest and the bump.
On to happier things, we’re off to NJ today for Thanksgiving. I’m pretty excited. We will be staying at DH’s cousin’s Sara and her husband’s Edward house and BIL/SIL are coming from FL. It should be lots of fun and the food should be delicious. The only thing I’m a little worried about is that I think Sara has suffered a miscarriage in the past and is still trying to have a baby. It’s sad. She sent us a nice message about the pregnancy. I just hope that too much baby talk doesn’t upset her. She’s really nice so I don’t expect a scene. I will try not to be too much of an AW and be considerate of her feelings.
I’m hoping to see my BFF Krystalyn over the weekend since she will be home in NJ for Thanksgiving as well. I haven’t seen her since August and we haven’t been doing a good job of keeping in touch. It’s sad but we both lead busy lives. She has a BF that she is with. I don’t think she really loves him, but she won’t break up with him until someone better comes along. I don’t really judge or care what she does with her love life. I like the guy, but it is not my business.
Have a great Thanksgiving everyone!